Do you sometimes wonder what happened to the good parts of your relationship? If you believe that things could be better, it is not a failing on your part.  It just means that you are thinking of the possibilities that exist in your relationship. Marriage Labs can help you realize those possibilities. One of the most difficult moments in a marriage is when you discover “we are different.”  People select a mate thinking how well they get along and how similar they are but then one day the differences become glaring.  Just because you like something a certain way (“it works for me” mentality) does not mean that your partner feels the same way.  Ironing out these differences is a fundamental task of marriage.  Not only taking the other into consideration but truly appreciating the differences and loving the person for who they are. View last month’s Pearl “Enemy vs. Ally” The next Couple Communication Course  starts Wednesday, June 13th at 7:30pm Marriage Labs addresses a wide range of issues common to all relationships. John & Gail Kaplan, Co-founders of Marriage Labs Powered by Bolster © Marriage Labs 2012 Each month Marriage Labs offers you a free gift, the Pearl of the Month. Subscribe to our newsletter to receive these monthly gems via email. Error of Assumed Similarity